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French Etiquette & Cultural Customs: The 'Bonjour' Rule & Café Manners (Praktische Gids Frankrijk)

Why 'Bonjour' is the golden key to France, how sidewalk café terraces divide coffee vs. dining tables, and market shopping rules.

The Golden Rule: Always Begin with 'Bonjour'

In France, walking into a bakery, boutique, pharmacy, or up to a train staffer and launching straight into a question without first saying 'Bonjour, Madame' or 'Bonjour, Monsieur' (and 'Bonsoir' after 6:00 PM) is considered a jarring breach of politeness. Pair it with 'Merci, bonne journée' when leaving and doors open everywhere.

Café Terraces, Markets & Quiet Voices

At sidewalk cafés, tables laid with paper placemats, silverware, and wine glasses are reserved for full meals between 11:45 AM and 2:30 PM; unlaid small round tables are for coffee or apéritifs. Never ask to split a restaurant bill by individual items at the table—walk up to the counter ('au comptoir') and tell the cashier how much to put on each card. At outdoor food markets, let the vendor select your peaches, melons, and cheeses rather than squeezing produce yourself.

Key Takeaways & Local Tips

  • Verify schedules and book high-speed train tickets directly on SNCF Connect or the Bonjour RATP app.
  • Save our offline French Phrasebook & Allergy Show-Cards on your phone before boarding your flight.
  • Always greet staff with 'Bonjour' before asking a question in English or French.

Official sources & further reading

Rules, prices and schedules change. Confirm details here before you travel: